It can be hard to know how to show up for someone with cancer. But from my own experience, and from talking to other cancer survivors, I’ve learned that the best thing you can do is think about what you’re good at, and what you, in particular, might offer your person at this moment.
Even if you don’t know anyone with cancer now, it will probably affect someone you love. The National Cancer Institute estimates that 39% of Americans will be diagnosed with cancer at some point in their lives.
Here are four specific roles that friends and family members can play for a loved one with cancer. They each meet a critical need that cancer patients often have.
Role No. 1: Doctor’s appointment buddy
Role No. 2: Procedure pal and patient advocate
Role No. 3: Companion after surgeries or infusions
Role No. 4: Household helper and meal planner
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Article URL : https://www.npr.org/2025/10/24/nx-s1-5464812/not-sure-how-to-support-a-friend-with-cancer-survivors-have-advice